Self love

Self love is loving every thing that you are. The good and the bad. This means loving the not so perfect parts of yourself. The thoughts you have but do not speak. The shadows or skeletons you keep. This is our compost. And by loving our compost what we are doing is watering ourself. And what happens when you water compost? IT GROWS…! Beautiful flowers begin to sprout. I start to let go of fear, unworthiness, lonleyness and find self worth, love and authenticity with in myself. I’ve even learned how to be intimate with myself. Eye gazing in the mirror and fall in love with myself. Every part of my body even the unperfected parts. I start piercing in to my soul and see a love. I also practice tantra every morning. Learning how I want to be touched. Finding what pleases me. So I may guide another hopfuly on how i want to be touched . I also started feeding this vessel I drive even better. Why? Because I love myself. Because I am dating myself and I want to see a sexy healthy me. I do yoga, workout and meditate cause I love it. I speak to myself with love and compassion. Words of affremations. Because words are spells. I heard a quote that says “you can only love somebody as deep as you love yourself“ And I am filled with love. I no longer have to hide my fears. I could be fully vulnerable and authentically me all the time. Authentically relating and co-creating life with myself and other. That sounds like a beautiful relationship to me. No more searching outside of myself. No more filling a void. For when my cup is overflowing with love it is easy for me to spill it on to others. Try something with me. Take your arms and wrap them around yourself. Kiss your self and say “I love you I am listening, I love you I am listening” its amazed what comes up. You will begin to see the real you to show up so you could love yourself even more.